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By Marius Gherghinescu
Although the key to success is communication, it is not advisable
to tell her everything that bothers you or tell about your
past relationships in detail. There are things that belong
to the past and need to stay there. In general it may not
be a good idea to tell her from the beginning that you initiated
the date only because you were bored and not totally attracted
by her. These issues may damage your intimacy and create trouble.
There are also topics that need to be kept away from your
potential date.
1. You are dependent on your mother
Your loved one does not need to know that you lived with
your parents until recently only because it was comfortable
to have your mother close to you. No woman will accept a man
depending on his mother's care. If you tell her this, she
will start thinking that your mother can influence your relationship
with her.
2. Things that your mates do
If you have close friends that like to do crazy stuff, do
not inform your potential girlfriend about it. If they want
to go to a strip bar, she will not be happy and may become
frightened about the ideas your friends can place in your
mind.
3. The excess of porn movies
Your potential girlfriend does not want to know how many
porn movies you watch a week, so spare the details. Maybe
she is not disturbed too much but she can ask herself questions
like: ''Do I satisfy him?'', ''Does he have a fetish?'' or
''Is he mentally deranged?"
4. You liked her girlfriend before
...but because she said: ''No way!'' you turned to her instead.
Even if you realize now that it was the best choice possible,
such a confession can make your present relationship dysfunctional.
No woman would ever like to be second choice; she would not
think this is a funny event or just fate.
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